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When Your Child Forgets Instructions
What you see: Child starts a task, gets distracted, and completely forgets what they were supposed to do.
Home Strategies:
- Break instructions into single steps
- Use visual reminders (pictures, notes)
- Have them repeat back what you said
- Create routine checklists
School Support:
- Request written instructions alongside verbal
- Ask teacher to check understanding before starting
- Use graphic organizers for multi-step tasks
- Allow use of recording devices
When Everything Takes Forever
What you see: Child works slowly and deliberately, even on simple tasks. Always the last one finished.
Home Strategies:
- Build extra time into routines
- Avoid rushing or time pressure
- Break large tasks into smaller chunks
- Celebrate effort, not speed
School Support:
- Extended time on tests and assignments
- Reduce quantity of work (quality over quantity)
- Allow alternative ways to show knowledge
- Avoid timed drills and competitions
When Problem-Solving is Hard
What you see: Child struggles with new problems, puzzles, or anything that doesn't have a clear, practiced solution.
Home Strategies:
- Teach step-by-step problem-solving methods
- Use concrete examples before abstract concepts
- Practice with similar problems repeatedly
- Think out loud to model reasoning
School Support:
- Provide templates and frameworks
- Teach specific strategies for each subject
- Use graphic organizers for thinking
- Allow use of calculators and reference sheets
When Vocabulary is Limited
What you see: Child doesn't understand words that peers know, struggles with reading comprehension, has trouble expressing ideas.
Home Strategies:
- Read together daily
- Explain new words in context
- Use rich vocabulary in conversations
- Connect new learning to their interests
School Support:
- Pre-teach vocabulary before lessons
- Provide background knowledge explicitly
- Use visual supports for new concepts
- Allow extra time for reading assignments
When Sounds are Confusing
What you see: Child mishears words, struggles in noisy environments, has trouble with rhyming or breaking words into sounds.
Home Strategies:
- Face your child when speaking
- Reduce background noise
- Use visual cues with verbal instructions
- Practice rhyming games and sound activities
School Support:
- Preferential seating near teacher
- Written instructions alongside verbal
- Use of FM system or sound amplification
- Extra time for listening comprehension
When Directions and Spaces are Hard
What you see: Child gets lost easily, struggles with maps, has trouble with puzzles, bumps into things frequently.
Home Strategies:
- Use landmarks instead of directions
- Practice with simple maps and diagrams
- Organize spaces clearly with labels
- Use verbal descriptions with visual tasks
School Support:
- Provide written directions for locations
- Use verbal explanations with visual materials
- Allow extra time for visual-spatial tasks
- Provide graph paper for math
When Writing is Painful
What you see: Child's handwriting is messy, they complain of hand pain, avoid writing tasks, take forever to copy information.
Home Strategies:
- Allow typing instead of handwriting
- Use larger pencils or grips
- Break writing tasks into short sessions
- Focus on content over handwriting quality
School Support:
- Reduce copying requirements
- Allow use of computer for assignments
- Provide copies of notes
- Consider occupational therapy evaluation
When Cognitive Differences Affect Friendships
What you see: Child struggles to keep up with group conversations, misses social cues, or avoids social activities.
Supporting Social Success:
- Practice social scripts for common situations
- Role-play challenging social scenarios
- Help them find friends with similar interests
- Teach them to advocate for their needs
Building Confidence:
- Focus on their strengths in social settings
- Arrange structured social activities
- Teach them about their cognitive profile
- Connect with other families facing similar challenges
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